So I asked this question on twitter earlier today because I was curious...
Twitter Poll:How many of my male followers follow porn stars on twitter? And if so, y? Lol. I need some insight for a discussion I'm having.
SHOUTOUT to @TrueNalej For being the only person that responded... His response was...
@HurtMEEZYSoul nah def dnt y wud i want to follow a pornstar
So, since I was dissatisfied with my responses I went to consult my friend Brandon. Brandon is the most honest male everrrrr. He ALWAYS keeps it 100 with me and is one of the few males in my life that I have never caught in a lie. I knew he would shed some light on this for me... Our correspondence is below....
Me:Do you follow any porn stars on twitter?
Brandon:naw
i dont know any to follow em like that
should i?
Me:I was just wondering
like what niggas got outta that?
Brandon:i aint up on porn like that
and a bitch is a bitch on twitter
but maybe porn stars get naked a lot
who knows
Me:lol ok
Brandon:i prefer looking at chicks i know naked though
like it seems more real
So I take my question to tumblr... Fellas... Do you follow porn stars on twitter? Why or why not? I'm just trying to understand lol.
Gordon Gartrell Radio Episode 20 →
The Based Edition
In this episode, Phonte discusses his New Year’s reconciliation with longtime friend 9th Wonder, working with Lil B the Based God, his thoughts on OFWGKTA, and why he doesn’t attend Epic Annual Nigga Events. #SWAG.
Memoirs of a Self Antagonist: Hollywood Sorority →
American Psycho. ‘Nuff said.
After Charlie Sheen’s rant about having Adonis DNA and tiger blood the good folks over at Harcos Labs has made the latter a reality. Unfortunately, you’ll have to shell out around four bucks for each pouch, which is a little pricey for an energy drunk dontcha think?
The flavor is fruit punch and it includes 80 mg of caffeine to perk you up and face your haters. Careful though, too much of it and you’ll become a warlock - or end up next to Jon Cryer on Two and a Half Men.
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The Architecture of the Mind (c) Peter Carruthers
Mr. Stephen Wiltshire… Who is more commonly known as the “Human Camera” is a 36-year old autistic man who has the ability to create landscape images from memory. The art-work below that is a 20 foot panoramic view of New York City… Which took him 6 days to complete after taking a 20 minute helicopter ride over Manhattan. Dude is incredible…
Check out some more of his work HERE
A photo I took of my friend Dirty… And Johnny Depp… Creepy right?
Polka dots and Moonbeams © Frank Sinatra
Do you have Sunday dinner in your apartment building? How would you feel if this flier was slipped under your door? Smh… Only in Chicago lol.
I want you. © Common
“If my main would act right… Then I wouldn’t need all these hoes.”
Chanel and Jordan 3s! :)
My fav celebrity kid rockin J’s…. <3. Mind you, this pic is 3 years old. #BAWSE.
Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale’s offspring… I wanna be like him when I grow up… I love the unbuttoned pants lol
Baby cause I’m a thug.
Maybe not…
Adele’s latest single… ENJOY! :)
Her new album is scheduled for release in the US on February 22, 2011. However, I got my hands on it a little early thanks to a friend… DON’T SLEEP… Cop this ASAPington… your eardrums will LOVE you for it.
You was cheatin’ (yes you was), caught you creepin’ (yes I did)
To the window, to the wall, skeet-skeetin’ (you triflin’ hoe) © Little Brother
So I had a convo with a male friend of mine yesterday about why women cheat… And though I couldn’t speak from experience… or for all women for that matter… Hopefully I helped him to understand a little better. I came across this old AskMen.com article about the matter…. Thoughts folks? Do you agree or disagree with these reasons…
Number 10
Not enough sex
Remember the good old days when you could stay up forever fooling around? Then responsibility entered the mix – and kids – and before you knew it, sleep was more important than sex. Well, women want to feel wanted. If you’re not making her feel that way, she could seek it elsewhere. To keep that spark alive, ask her out on date nights, send her provocative e-mails at lunch, and by all means, don’t let life get in the way of kissing, cuddling and sex.
Number 9
Being the bad girl
Just as men feel the urge to sow their wild oats, some women have an inner sex kitten just waiting to be unleashed – and when the beast escapes from the cage, look out. This frisky behavior usually rears its ugly head in response to some sort of life change – major weight loss, new job, new friends, mid-life crisis, etc. Keep the lines of communication open and she’ll be more likely to talk to you about what’s going on instead of spilling her guts to a stranger in the night.
Number 8
Self-esteem
Sex can be an instant pick-me-up; a self-esteem booster that makes women feel sexier, more beautiful and more loved. If your wife or girlfriend has self-esteem issues, it doesn’t mean she’s automatically going to cheat – and it’s certainly not your fault if she does – but there are ways to make her feel secure in the relationship that could help her from straying. Pay attention to her, ask her questions and don’t hold back on compliments – a little flattery goes a long way with women.
Number 7
Revenge/payback for past wrongs
No, you didn’t cheat, but whether you blew your retirement fund in Vegas or got caught in a big lie, you did break her trust (and, possibly, her heart). She feels wounded and betrayed – and wants to hurt you the same way you hurt her. To regain her trust, it’s not enough just to tell her you’re sorry; you have to show her. Actions speak louder than words.
Number 6
Lack of intimacy
You have it all: the house, the two-car garage and the two-and-a-half bathrooms – at least on the outside. But inside, the relationship is lacking the one thing women want most: intimacy. It’s not just sex that makes women feel connected in a relationship; it’s touching, kissing, cuddling, and communicating. Women crave it, and she could seek it elsewhere if she’s not getting it at home. To improve intimacy, spend quality time together, give her a foot massage, make a romantic dinner for two – anything that will give her a sense of unity and closeness.
Number 5
Feeling neglected/ignored/underappreciated
Women wear many hats in a relationship – housekeeper, errand-runner, grocery shopper, babysitter, etc. When she feels more like a maid than a girlfriend/wife, that’s when she could stray. The fact that you spend all your time at work or on the golf course gives her double reason to seek attention elsewhere. No, you can’t quit your job, but you can thank her for all her selfless deeds – and do your share around the house.
Number 4
Your emotional withdrawal
Women are emotional beings. Not only do they need physical support, but they also need emotional support. Once you retreat from the relationship, she sees it as a sign that things are through – a breakup is inevitable. So, she’s not really cheating, she’s moving on. To avoid this, be present in the relationship. Yes, that means sharing your icky feelings, but it’s better than the alternative, right?
Number 3
Bedroom boredom
Sex can become monotonous if you let it – the same position; the same setting; the same person. An affair adds adventure and gets her adrenalin flowing. To avoid routine, avoid repetition. Sweep her away for the weekend, make out at the movies, kiss her for no reason at all… The unexpected adds excitement.
Number 2
Exit strategy
Instead of breaking up with you, she cheats on you. That way she doesn’t have to deal with the broken relationship, which is much harder to fix. An affair is the easy way out – or at least that’s how she sees it. That’s another reason communication is key. Let her know that she can talk to you about anything and that you love her enough to work through any bumps in the relationship road.
Number 1
Revenge for your cheating
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Because you cheated, she wants to get back at you and give you a dose of your own medicine. Cheating is her vengeance, her chance to even the playing field. No, you can’t undo your indiscretion, but you can ask for her forgiveness, assure her it will never happen again and suggest couples therapy to help you get through this tough time.
…Her cheating heart
When you add up all the reasons women cheat, it’s usually her heart (or her ego) that needs healing, not her libido. Keep the lines of communication open, be supportive and encouraging and work at keeping that spark ignited. In other words: Don’t give her a reason to stray.
Booo
Me:He takes her for granted
Him:As most men do when they have a really good woman.
Me:I refuse to believe that. *pouts.*