“If my main would act right… Then I wouldn’t need all these hoes.”
Do you have Sunday dinner in your apartment building? How would you feel if this flier was slipped under your door? Smh… Only in Chicago lol.
Do you have Sunday dinner in your apartment building? How would you feel if this flier was slipped under your door? Smh… Only in Chicago lol.
I want you. © Common
“If my main would act right… Then I wouldn’t need all these hoes.”
Chanel and Jordan 3s! :)
My fav celebrity kid rockin J’s…. <3. Mind you, this pic is 3 years old. #BAWSE.
Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale’s offspring… I wanna be like him when I grow up… I love the unbuttoned pants lol
Baby cause I’m a thug.
Maybe not…
Adele’s latest single… ENJOY! :)
Her new album is scheduled for release in the US on February 22, 2011. However, I got my hands on it a little early thanks to a friend… DON’T SLEEP… Cop this ASAPington… your eardrums will LOVE you for it.
You was cheatin’ (yes you was), caught you creepin’ (yes I did)
To the window, to the wall, skeet-skeetin’ (you triflin’ hoe) © Little Brother
So I had a convo with a male friend of mine yesterday about why women cheat… And though I couldn’t speak from experience… or for all women for that matter… Hopefully I helped him to understand a little better. I came across this old AskMen.com article about the matter…. Thoughts folks? Do you agree or disagree with these reasons…
Number 10
Not enough sex
Remember the good old days when you could stay up forever fooling around? Then responsibility entered the mix – and kids – and before you knew it, sleep was more important than sex. Well, women want to feel wanted. If you’re not making her feel that way, she could seek it elsewhere. To keep that spark alive, ask her out on date nights, send her provocative e-mails at lunch, and by all means, don’t let life get in the way of kissing, cuddling and sex.
Number 9
Being the bad girl
Just as men feel the urge to sow their wild oats, some women have an inner sex kitten just waiting to be unleashed – and when the beast escapes from the cage, look out. This frisky behavior usually rears its ugly head in response to some sort of life change – major weight loss, new job, new friends, mid-life crisis, etc. Keep the lines of communication open and she’ll be more likely to talk to you about what’s going on instead of spilling her guts to a stranger in the night.
Number 8
Self-esteem
Sex can be an instant pick-me-up; a self-esteem booster that makes women feel sexier, more beautiful and more loved. If your wife or girlfriend has self-esteem issues, it doesn’t mean she’s automatically going to cheat – and it’s certainly not your fault if she does – but there are ways to make her feel secure in the relationship that could help her from straying. Pay attention to her, ask her questions and don’t hold back on compliments – a little flattery goes a long way with women.
Number 7
Revenge/payback for past wrongs
No, you didn’t cheat, but whether you blew your retirement fund in Vegas or got caught in a big lie, you did break her trust (and, possibly, her heart). She feels wounded and betrayed – and wants to hurt you the same way you hurt her. To regain her trust, it’s not enough just to tell her you’re sorry; you have to show her. Actions speak louder than words.
Number 6
Lack of intimacy
You have it all: the house, the two-car garage and the two-and-a-half bathrooms – at least on the outside. But inside, the relationship is lacking the one thing women want most: intimacy. It’s not just sex that makes women feel connected in a relationship; it’s touching, kissing, cuddling, and communicating. Women crave it, and she could seek it elsewhere if she’s not getting it at home. To improve intimacy, spend quality time together, give her a foot massage, make a romantic dinner for two – anything that will give her a sense of unity and closeness.
Number 5
Feeling neglected/ignored/underappreciated
Women wear many hats in a relationship – housekeeper, errand-runner, grocery shopper, babysitter, etc. When she feels more like a maid than a girlfriend/wife, that’s when she could stray. The fact that you spend all your time at work or on the golf course gives her double reason to seek attention elsewhere. No, you can’t quit your job, but you can thank her for all her selfless deeds – and do your share around the house.
Number 4
Your emotional withdrawal
Women are emotional beings. Not only do they need physical support, but they also need emotional support. Once you retreat from the relationship, she sees it as a sign that things are through – a breakup is inevitable. So, she’s not really cheating, she’s moving on. To avoid this, be present in the relationship. Yes, that means sharing your icky feelings, but it’s better than the alternative, right?
Number 3
Bedroom boredom
Sex can become monotonous if you let it – the same position; the same setting; the same person. An affair adds adventure and gets her adrenalin flowing. To avoid routine, avoid repetition. Sweep her away for the weekend, make out at the movies, kiss her for no reason at all… The unexpected adds excitement.
Number 2
Exit strategy
Instead of breaking up with you, she cheats on you. That way she doesn’t have to deal with the broken relationship, which is much harder to fix. An affair is the easy way out – or at least that’s how she sees it. That’s another reason communication is key. Let her know that she can talk to you about anything and that you love her enough to work through any bumps in the relationship road.
Number 1
Revenge for your cheating
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Because you cheated, she wants to get back at you and give you a dose of your own medicine. Cheating is her vengeance, her chance to even the playing field. No, you can’t undo your indiscretion, but you can ask for her forgiveness, assure her it will never happen again and suggest couples therapy to help you get through this tough time.
…Her cheating heart
When you add up all the reasons women cheat, it’s usually her heart (or her ego) that needs healing, not her libido. Keep the lines of communication open, be supportive and encouraging and work at keeping that spark ignited. In other words: Don’t give her a reason to stray.
Me:He takes her for granted
Him:As most men do when they have a really good woman.
Me:I refuse to believe that. *pouts.*
Me:What are you up to nowadays?
JC:I'm in healthcare. Workn for Humana. Been here since I graduated jus n different cities
Me:Ooooo ok. Do you like it?
JC:I do. I love a challenge (prolly y I fell for u, go figure) and with my industry changing so drastically I study a lot to stay ahead.
Me:That's cool. I took a healthcare law class... it was confusing.
JC:It's ever changing and quite contradicting. Seems like you would have loved it. Lol
Smh... ME??? CONTRADICTORY AND EVER CHANGING...??? Nonsense lol. I don't appreciate him throwing jabs at me! :-p
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Been playing this song a lot the last few days…
Coachella 2011 Lineup. I’m THERE!
“My Bia is having a bad day. So here is a public display of homo love just for her. Bia you are my sarcophagus. Even if you take my love, multiply it by infinity and take it to the depths of forever … U still have only a glimpse of how I feel for you”
Lupe Fiasco – “Words I Never Said” ft Skylar Gray (Prod by Alex Da Kid) | Teaser
I missed the Golden Globes… But I found a youtube clip of my booooooo :) I<3 RDJ. I complied a list of the nominees and winners for those that missed it as well… Enjoy! :)
Best Motion Picture – Drama
Black Swan
The Fighter
Inception
The King’s Speech
The Social Network
Best Actress in Motion Picture – Drama
Halle Berry, Frankie and Alice
Nicole Kidman, Rabbit Hole
Natalie Portman, Black Swan
Jennifer Lawrence, Winter’s Bone
Michelle Williams, Blue Valentine
Best Actor in Motion Picture – Drama
Jesse Eisenberg, The Social Network
Colin Firth, The King’s Speech
James Franco, 127 Hours
Ryan Gosling, Blue Valentine
Mark Wahlberg, The Fighter
Best Motion Picture – Comedy or Musical
Alice in Wonderland
Burlesque
The Kids Are All Right
Red
The Tourist
Best Actress in Motion Picture – Comedy or Musical
Annette Bening, The Kids Are All Right
Anne Hathaway, Love And Other Drugs
Angelina Jolie, The Tourist
Julianne Moore, The Kids Are All Right
Best Actor in Motion Picture – Comedy or Musical
Johnny Depp, Alice in Wonderland
Paul Giamatti, Barney’s Version
Jake Gyllenhaal, Love And Other Drugs
Johnny Depp, The Tourist
Kevin Spacey, Casino Jack
Best Television Series – Drama
Boardwalk Empire (HBO)
Dexter (Showtime)
The Good Wife (CBS)
Mad Men (AMC)
The Walking Dead (AMC)
Best Actress in Television Series – Drama
Piper Perabo, Covert Affairs
Elisabeth Moss, Mad Men
Julianna Margulies, The Good Wife
Katey Sagal, Sons Of Anarchy
Kyra Sedgwick, The Closer
Best Actor in Television Series – Drama
Bryan Cranston, Breaking Bad
Steve Buscemi, Boardwalk Empire
Michael C. Hall, Dexter
Jon Hamm, Mad Men
Hugh Laurie, House
Best Television Series – Comedy or Musical
30 Rock (NBC)
The Big Bang Theory (CBS)
The Big C (Showtime)
Glee (Fox)
Modern Family (ABC)
Nurse Jackie (Showtime)
Best Actress in Television Series – Comedy or Musical
Toni Collette, United States Of Tara
Edie Falco, Nurse Jackie
Tina Fey, 30 Rock
Laura Linney, The Big C
Lea Michele, Glee
Best Actor in Television Series – Comedy or Musical
Alec Baldwin, 30 Rock
Steve Carell, The Office
Thomas Jane, Hung
Matthew Morrison, Glee
Jim Parsons, The Big Bang Theory
Best Supporting Actress in a Motion Picture
Amy Adams, The Fighter
Helena Bonham Carter, The King’s Speech
Mila Kunis, Black Swan
Melissa Leo, The Fighter
Jacki Weaver, Animal Kingdom
Best Supporting Actor in a Motion Picture
Christian Bale, The Fighter
Michael Douglas, Wall Street: Money Never Sleeps
Andrew Garfield, The Social Network
Jeremy Renner, The Town
Geoffrey Rush, The King’s Speech
Best Animated Feature Film
Despicable Me
How To Train Your Dragon
The Illusionist
Tangled
Toy Story 3
Best Foreign Language Film
Biutiful (Mexico, Spain)
The Concert (France)
In A Better World (Denmark)
The Edge (Russia)
I Am Love (Italy)
Best Director – Motion Picture
Darren Aronofsky, Black Swan
David Fincher, The Social Network
Tom Hooper, The King’s Speech
Christopher Nolan, Inception
David O. Russell, The Fighter
Best Screenplay – Motion Picture
Simon Beaufoy, Danny Boyle, 127 Hours
Christopher Nolan, Inception
Stuart Blumberg, Lisa Cholodenko, The Kids Are All Right
David Seidler, The King’s Speech
Aaron Sorkin, The Social Network
Best Original Score – Motion Picture
Alexandre Desplat, The King’s Speech
Danny Elfman, Alice in Wonderland
A. R. Rahman, 127 Hours
Trent Reznor and Atticus Ross, The Social Network
Hans Zimmer, Inception
Best Original Song – Motion Picture
“Bound To You,” Burlesque
“Coming Home,” Country Strong
“You Haven’t Seen The Last Of Me,” Burlesque
“I See The Light,” Tangled
“There’s A Place For Us,” The Chronicles Of Narnia: The Voyage Of The Dawn Treader
Best Mini-Series Motion Picture Made for Television
Carlos (Sundance Channel)
The Pacific (HBO)
Pillars Of The Earth (STARZ)
Temple Grandin (HBO)
You Don’t Know Jack (HBO)
Best Actress in Mini-Series or Motion Picture Made for Television
Hayley Atwell, Pillars Of The Earth
Claire Danes, Temple Grandin
Judi Dench, Return To Cranford
Romola Garai, Emma
Jennifer Love Hewitt, The Client List
Best Actor in Mini-Series or Motion Picture Made for Television
Idris Elba, Luther
Ian McShane, Pillars Of The Earth
Al Pacino, You Don’t Know Jack
Dennis Quaid, The Special Relationship
Edgar Ramirez, Carlos
Best Supporting Actress in Series, Mini-Series or Motion Picture Made for Television
Hope Davis, The Special Relationship
Jane Lynch, Glee
Kelly MacDonald, Boardwalk Empire
Julia Stiles, Dexter
Sofia Vergara, Modern Family
Best Supporting Actor in Series, Mini-Series or Motion Picture Made for Television
Scott Caan, Hawaii Five-O
Chris Colfer, Glee
Chris Noth, The Good Wife
Eric Stonestreet, Modern Family
David Strathairn, Temple Grandin
This face pretty much sums up my weekend… Lol